Invite those who cannot invite you

Gospel

Luke 14:12-14

Do not invite those who might be able to invite you back

Jesus said to his host, one of the leading Pharisees, ‘When you give a lunch or a dinner, do not ask your friends, brothers, relations or rich neighbours, for fear they repay your courtesy by inviting you in return. No; when you have a party, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; that they cannot pay you back means that you are fortunate, because repayment will be made to you when the virtuous rise again.’

Short Reflection

Jesus critiques the common practice of hosting with an expectation of reciprocity. By advising his host, a leading Pharisee, not to invite those who can easily return the favor (friends, family, rich neighbors), Jesus exposes how often hospitality is driven by social climbing or a desire for mutual benefit rather than genuine giving.

Instead, He instructs us to seek out those on the margins—the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind. These are the people who, by their circumstances, cannot repay the courtesy. This act of inviting the socially disadvantaged transforms the dinner from a calculated social exchange into a moment of pure, selfless charity. Jesus assures us that while there will be no repayment in this life, the reward is guaranteed at the "resurrection of the virtuous." The blessing, therefore, is not in what we get back immediately, but in the virtuous act of giving without expectation. It's a call to reorient our actions toward heavenly, rather than earthly, rewards.

Question for Reflection

In what areas of your life (e.g., career, social media, relationships) do you unconsciously operate on a principle of reciprocity ("I'll do this for them if they can do something for me"), and how can you intentionally perform a small, unseen act of kindness this week for someone who can offer nothing in return?

Short Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Help us to see others not for what they can give us, but simply for who they are: Your beloved children. Grant us the courage to offer genuine hospitality and unconditional love, knowing that true treasure is found not in earthly reciprocation, but in the joy of serving those in need. Amen.

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